This year I resolved not to make any resolutions. So far it's going well. As I think about this new year in its infancy, I think about possibilities. The decisions I make today will determine the possibilities tomorrow. I realize now that where I am today is a result of the decisions I made before. I will choose to make good decisions today about what I eat, working out, reading something inspiring, calling friends and loved ones just because (even though it is a holiday).
Something that I am evaluating about me is "Why do I seem to be attracted to women that are either geographically or emotionally unavailable. Is there an underlying reason? Fear of rejection maybe. If they are not available then I can blame that if they don't want to be with me. I would like to find someone who let's me be me and likes me for being me. Life is a marvelous, exciting journey. It's nice to have someone to share it with. Someone who actually wants to be there with you....
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Before we've worked through our past relationships we're not ready to move forward. With that said, it is "safe" to be attracted to people who are unattainable. Loneliness is a byproduct of having not finished the work. It is a necessary part of the journey to self-awareness. It took me 8-1/2 years to work through my failed marriage before I sought a new relationship; but when I was finally ready it was worth the lonely nights and single movie tickets. I knew what I wanted and needed to make me whole.
ReplyDeleteDon't rush your future. It will be here before you know it.
Hugs, Barb
I agree with Barb 100 percent. Don't rush, Ron. Trust God's mercy and grace to you in this time.
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